Hey, beautiful souls! Giselle here, and today we’re diving deep into the essence of what truly lies behind a solid black man. I get it, all you’ve heard…. and what is constantly shared in mainstream media such as social media, podcasts, and film is everything the black man is NOT. But, I’m here to share what truly exists behind every solid black man!
Personally, my life changes immensely ever since I started creating my life with my Husband. My father gave me advice and guidance like none other. My uncle always made me feel safe and comfortable in my own skin. And even as a child, I was always provided for and lived a very soft life, thanks to the hard-work and sacrifices of my Grandfather. The men in my life helped shape the woman I am today. And this blog post is to shed light on what exists behind every solid black man.
Behind the strength, charisma, confidence, and undeniable charm, there are foundational principles that shape and elevate the kings in our lives. Let’s talk about the magic that fuels their journey—because, yes, it’s all about love, a soft life for their queens, protection, self-esteem, and the undeniable power of their will.
Love as the Guiding Light
At the core of every solid black man is a reservoir of love. It’s not just about romantic love; it’s about the love that emanates from their very being. It’s the love for family, friends, and community—a force that drives them to uplift and support those around them.
Soft Life for the Queens
Behind every solid black man is a commitment to providing a soft life for the women they cherish. It’s about creating a haven of peace, comfort, and understanding. From simple gestures to grand expressions, these kings make sure their queens feel adored and protected.
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Protection, A Sacred Oath
Solid black men understand the sacred duty of protection. It’s not just physical protection; it’s safeguarding the emotional and spiritual well-being of their loved ones. In a world full of challenges, they stand tall as pillars of strength, shielding their kingdom from harm.
Self-Esteem, the Root of Confidence
Confidence is not just a trait; it’s a manifestation of deep-rooted self-esteem. Solid black men carry themselves with pride, not in an arrogant way, but in a manner that reflects a strong belief in their worth. This self-assurance becomes a beacon, inspiring those around them.
Will-Power, the Driving Force
Behind the success of every solid black man is an unyielding will-power. It’s the tenacity to overcome obstacles, the resilience to rise after a fall, and the determination to achieve their dreams. This will-power is the force that propels them toward greatness.
So, here’s to the solid black men in our lives—the ones who embody love, create soft lives for their queens, provide unwavering protection, carry themselves with self-esteem, and possess the will-power to shape their destinies.
Salute to the kings who inspire us to greatness! And especially to My Husband, who as always, inspires this message.
Giselle Avenue 
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